You suck. You Rock. You rock my world. The emotional rollercoaster that people can throw you on is nothing short of abusive. People's knee-jerk reaction of who you are or what you do is probably the most honest, non-sugar coated version of how you really perceive yourself.I'm a strong believer in the idea that the way you truly perceive yourself is how others will see you too. Granted, there are occasions where someone may believe they are the most amazing human, when in fact they are the farthest thing from it, but remember there always has to be an exception to the rule. This theory and suggestion stems back from probably the most basic and first rule that your parents and teachers taught you. Treat others the way you want to be treated. Same idea. Here's my spin.
Do what you have to do to be awesome. Enjoy it. Wear that dress that you're on the fence about whether or not its appropriate for the night. Don't always opt for the black pumps. Talk to someone you don't know. Look at something a different way. Change your own mind about a person. Create your own rules. Choose to dance (thanks Womack). Take work seriously. Then take time off. Pack your weekend with fun. Surround yourself with people that make you feel good. If you think you're boring, you probably are. Change it if you don't like it. Otherwise embrace it.
How do people perceive you? If you like it, rock out, continue being your fabulous self. If not, tweak it. Either way, have fun along the way.
*Image is from the BBC iconic show Absolutely Fabulous
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