What does it take to keep a girls attention? If you're a guy, I'm sure you've figured out what it takes to get it. But how do you keep it? Is it flowers, gifts, great sex, letters, a combination of the four?It makes me wonder what can keep a girls attention on one guy. I have a great friend that decided about three years ago, after being fed up with her lacking love life, to declare a ballsy New Years resolution. She would go on 52 dates that year and be proactive about her love life instead of sitting back and waiting.
Her stories were epic. I've never laughed and gasped so much in my life listening to how her evenings of intended bliss turned into a drum roll of disappointing and ego-bruising affairs. She basically said yes to everyone that asked her out, dabbled in on-line dating, let her mom set her up, even made the most of her eligible apartment neighbors. All of them never seemed to work out. Don't get me wrong, some of them, she thanked her lucky stars that she escaped alive from. The silver lining of this story is that after date number 13 while randomly out at a pub she met the man she now loves and lives with.
The point of bringing that up is, what didn't these guys do to keep her interests peaked? I never remember her saying anything about them that made me swoon on her behalf. So what does it take these days to keep our attention?
I couldn't find a single article that provided relevant tips that I didnt laugh at. Help me out here. Let's come up with 5 tips for keeping a girls attention - leave your tip in the comments section.
Picture pulled from Artofseductions.com
2 comments:
it isn't about material things..it's about always being honest and knowing how to make her laugh/smile.
So keep her laughing. I agree with that one. We have Number 1! What's next???
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